The title itself sounds controversial yet silly. I mean how can you spot a virgin? Wait, before I proceed further, the virgins i meant here are female. Back to the discussion, what are the elements that need to be taken into count when a guy wanna spot a virgin wife or girlfriend?
1. Hymen!!! Hymen and Hymen!!
Just that piece of bloody tissue which is really fragile?? ( i will come back on this)
2. The way they walk?
Remind me of my high school virgin theory
3. Those saggy boobs?
*Lolz, i will come back on this as well infact i will re-discuss about all these points below
4. “out of shape” kinda buttocks?
*wonder how for those genetically affected gals
Ladies, pardon me for bringing up such discussion in the 1st place. I wouldn’t wanna talk about it since education is still kept discreet among Malaysians but due to some circumstances and some shallow minded ass holes, I hope this article at least would clear up some doubts for those who misjudge a female’s purity and sacredness through their own fcuking judgements.
Hymen issue
Sounds bombastic? nah, i think if you tell and indian boys “seal” then he would understand well better than if you tell them hymen. Why “seal”, for them, when you buy a new product it should be sealed rite, so its something like warranty void if seal is broken. lolz..stupidity huh..
Hymen, is a very tiny layer of tissue like thing can be found inside a vagina. However, this piece of tissue is really fragile where it can be torn in any rough activities like cycling, taekwando or what ever sports that need you to spread your legs wide (rolls eyes). Hence, when such activities had been carried out, hymen tend to get torn and bleed. Some of them might think its some early menstruation or false alarm and just ignore it.
And when they get laid with the boyfriends or husband and the popped cherry didn’t juice, the shallow minded fucked up hubby tend to mistake the wife had sex before and they are not virgin. I mean wtf is wrong if that has been done. i’m sure most of the guys nowadays are not virgin any more and why must they expect the partner has to be a virgin??
I’ve got some sad story to share excerpt from an article
* Sunday, it was reported that a young Muslim couple’s marriage was annulled in 2006 because the bride, a student nurse in her 20s, was not a virgin.
* wedding night party was still under way at the family’s home in Roubaix, France, when the groom, an engineer in his 30s, came down from the bedroom complaining that his bride was not a virgin.
* He could not display the blood-stained sheet that is traditionally exhibited as proof of the bride’s purity.
* Elisabeth Badinter, a philosopher and pioneer of women’s legal rights, said the annulment would only serve to send young Muslim girls running to hospitals to have their hymens restored.
* France, although it is officially discouraged, the operation is seeing increasing demand from Muslim women who fear the consequences of being unable to prove their virginity on their wedding night.
* There are still reports of women being killed or brutalized by their family members in certain African and Middle-eastern countries if they are found not to be virgins on their wedding night.
It’s really unfair to judge a girl by the blood stain on the bed sheets. If you (GUYS) i meant MALEs are smart and considerate enough, the pain in your partners eyes should tell you is she or she isn’t. I had came across an online article about restoring the hymen. READ HERE
The way they walk
This is one of the funniest and most absurd way of checking it out. the walking style may vary from one’s body structure. Imagine a slightly fleshy lady walking, of course she cant give those cat walk as she might have some extra flesh on her thighs and it might make her feel uncomfortable with those leg crossing left and right and she shall walk more “freely”. Now can you judge is she a virgin or not. Another case, an athlete, due to the activity and physical training nature, she will definitely walk with the least of the so called elegant manner. So is it a must for her to be a non virgin?
Saggy boobs
Go back to school and get some lesson from your anatomy lecturer before start judging the girls. Let me share some that I had learned before. The bigger breast contains more fat tissues and that’s make the twins looks big. So when it gets heavy, of course your skin aren’t thick enough to hold them up and whatever goes up (the weight) must come down and that’s the law of gravity . Note, god didn’t create women with implanted push ups for it to look tough and firm and always pointing. 1st learn to respect human anatomy, 2ndly learn to respect women’s physical, its not easy for them to walk with something extra on the chest and same time trying their level best not to look outstanding in the crowd. 3rdly, learn to worship a women’s body, as its like a temple where you seek for divine love and that’s the source of nutrition that feeds all the souls on earth. so please don’t humiliate. Personally i feel its all rite to check out female boobs, as opposite pole attracts each other. But humble request, make them proud with what they have not make them feel humiliated.
Out of shape buttocks
And which idiot on earth said that butt shape can determine if the girl had perform sexual intercourse previously. Well, sometimes married women or mother of kids maybe have slightly run out of shape kinda figure as the stomach get bloated and the butt gets bigger when they are pregnant. so without proper massage and exercise, the stretched skin tend to be saggy and appears with more stretched marks. and that applies for those ladies. But for those bigger body frame or fat women, one cant judge by their butt shape as few aspect need to be taken into count such as the pelvic bone shape and the total amount of the deposited fat on the buttocks.
So, guys. Wake up, virginity means nothing. If you really love that someone, accept them as who they are not how they were. women has the soft corner where the guys begs for sex and out of love they would give it to them thinking that “he’s the One” but end up in vain. are they slut, hell not, mate!!! they are good just that too innocent. So guys, please don’t judge a book by its cover. The heart and character plus the trustworthy that counts. I always tell my buddies this, no matter how bad a girl’s past had been, as long as she is loyal to you and you meant the whole world to her, grab her tight and never let her down. To hell with those past and create a brand new chapter in your life. In fact, we are born to live !!!
* I haven’t proof read the post. Will do it later as I’m too sleepy now *
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wow, interesting..hmm not many will come 4ward to talk abt such issues n topics…a gud write up…well, yea nwdays, sex b4 marriage its very common thing among the youngsters, both male n female…nothin to b suprised off..but wats more suprising is wen d guys seek for virgin gals wen comes to marriage..y is it so…wen u can sleep around wif 10 gals, but if she slept wif one guy tat oso coz she believed in him 100%, its BIG MISTAKE….WHY????? if u (guys) want ur wife to b virgin then 1st ask urself whether u r in 1st place…dun expect them to be truth to u…u too be truth to them…
lets come to d post…hoi vicknes, since wen n how u did these much detail readings on gals…fuhyoo, u knw better abt ourselves then we do…hehhe…i got heard about the restoring hymen long time back….nt bad, msian women too aware of it n shows interest in restoring the hymen esp d married women…hehhe…gud 4them n their partners…btw, u knw wat..u have listed sum activities tat leads to torn hymen rite…do u knw tat even classical dance – brathanatyam,can b included in tat list…i got tis info from sum of my frens who learnt brathanatyam…so gals n guys beware of this too…if ur wife classical dancer then she might not leave d stain on d sheeth …then dont say she is not virgin…if u ask me, being sincere n truth to ur loving partner is more priceless than being virgin but not sincere to them…
yea thx gaya3..and yea i did mention wateva activity spreads ur leg, it might get torn….we can just pray hard for those shallow minded assholes to get a life or get a virgin dog to screw…bloody hell…iritatin rite..
wow,,,,very nice article,,,,and the stuffs u mentioned r really true….
thanks imay
wah.. today i learn something about women 😀
erm…. if i go grab a packet of mister potato in the store, I wouldn’t want it to be ripped open, would I?
Oh wait…. Wrong comment box.
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then u shud make sure u had nvr tasted d potato before as well in order for you to get the 1st time feel…..oppss, u came 2 the right comment box…lolzzz
what a post…mindblowing
well.. i think it is not so rite.. because all this is so surface and the bio thingy there could be more into. people can be V but does that really matters now?? nowaday people are more and more open.. Virgin?? there might have more ways which u may want to discover.. anyway all the ways u have say is so physical. there is emotionally also.. think abt it!
interesting post dude,u are right virginity means nothing,u dont deserve to have a girl if your agenda is her pandora’s box.haha those elements are norms among guys..hahaha
thanks for the comments guys, errr, joylous, i think u didnt get who i was siding in dis matter…i think u got me wrong that im the real virigin spotter….i’m hell not buddy..lolz
interesting.. I am enlightened 😀
How about for guy, any way to spot if he is a virgin? ;o)
u wanna noe is the guy a virgin?haha…check out his performance during d 1st nite lor..but bare in mind dat guys can act as if its their 1st time…therefore, only god and the guy themself can admit are they virgin or not… :0
🙂 cool topic..but i could not stop laughing reading the comment of the person called 3point8 and urs!hahaha..so funny!
bottom line is love the one that connects us to soul not coz of ones physical appearance.past,present and future is part and parcel of life.trust and true love is the essense of life not virginity.but true love only comes to ones life once and union of two souls are a manifestation.love that comes from within ones heart is the gift that we can give to our lover not that tiny piece of blood that determines.its not like we are bringing along our body when we die.its the memories and the bond that counts.
fuyoo anna. applause 2 a great mind! i wonder what would happen 2 world without u?
thanks umeisha..
and krija, overa ille…without me, the world would me more peace la…hehehe…
I , Dont , Have , ANy ,Comment,On,This,Matter * cough*
Sorry bout the empty comment (my bad)
Okie, Yeah…men…
oh i forgot…sorry…
MEN !!!
though its a lil complicated but their minds are all the bloody same! I just don get it..y do they seek a virgin? Feels good to be the first one to take it away from her, huh? Really? Feels good? Does it? Does it? Wow…(lame!!!)
But then again, its just not rite. Where do i find virgin guys? gimme an idea..(grins) Seriously, it just doesnt seem to be rite ya’ll(men)…LoL
And bout ur topic viknes, i read it til the very last bit. Mind blowin! U can’t spot a virgin by just lookin at the way she walks or the shape of every part of her body. Oh c’mon! Give a gal a break, rite!
Rite, Men..how to spot if he’s a virgin? LOL…if there is a way to spot if a guy’s a virgin…I’d date the fugliest man on earth, oh yes i will. I swear to god n Im gonna make that fugly man be one heck of a “happy” fugly man on earth …(too much of fugliness in this sentence)
Help me out here… (look, his butt is flat..YEAP! virgin!!! YES! No doubt in dat! Virgin!!!)
Puhhhhleeeease !!!
hey tweetila…thanks for the comment..really appreciate it yea..and u have a nice blog too and of cuz my level of vocab and grammar can never come close to u….hats off, lady…keep up the good work…cheers
I really hv no comment wit ur this kind of topic da
t c byeeee
hey malani, thanks for dropping by..lolz…did u read the whole post …please do not judge the topic by the title…thanks.
Well said my fren :)…its a beautiful topic…i just have something to say about Virgin..for those who don’t understand the term…
“Mother! whose virgin bosom was uncrost
With the least shade of thought to sin allied.
Woman! above all women glorified,
Our tainted nature’s solitary boast;
Purer than foam on central ocean tost;
Brighter than eastern skies at daybreak strewn
With fancied roses, than the unblemished moon
Before her wane begins on heaven’s blue coast;
Thy image falls to earth. Yet some, I ween,
Not unforgiven the suppliant knee might bend,
As to a visible Power, in which did blend
All that was mixed and reconciled in thee
Of mother’s love with maiden purity,
Of high with low, celestial with terrene! ”
THE VIRGIN by William Wordsworth 🙂
Wow..a cool topic here..I always wondering how accuracy the theory was.. ;p
My friends did give one stupid statement that guys can sleep around with any girls but the girl they gonna marry MUST be a virgin. I was like WTF?? if you want a virgin girl then you should be virgin as well.. you should be fair not double standard.. then, they replied no..guys can do like that because they are guys and girl shouldn’t because they are girls..sounds fucking stupid and shallow aite? and somehow the debate was ended with a conclusion..it was really a good debate.. ;p
my girl told there is way to find out whether the guy is virgin or not..and i’m still looking for the way to make her to spit out what was that..
p/s: i’m a guy anyway
nice poem
bro, are u serious abt it?i tink ur gf just pulling ur leg to make sure that u dun sleep around la bro…its a threat for u to being loyal nah?hehe…
Not so sure..lol even she also told me how to identify the virgins and the non virgins lol..she got lots of theory..like toe thingy all..
like toe thing?bro..care to explain a?interesting la
so true. good work:)
thanks nish…drop by more often yea
Hmm… vicky.. hats off to u… such a wonderful piece of work yaa.. Personally, i feel it’s a very bold move to talk about such matter. Moreover, talking facts with some depics of articles simply shows dat u did ur research.. cool! 🙂
Your explanation on the hymen and other theories are very true.. being an active sports person previously, we were briefed regarding this..so, I can’t agree with you more and in regards to other theories, (to my surprise which are still believed by a pool of people!) is really silly…
As I reading thru the comments followed, realised dat many have their own piece of sharing too.. most of them do agree.. and that’s a wonderful sign for a better future, eh.. 😉 Thanks guys!
Love a person, for who they are with you.. and not wat they have been previously.. this does not only applies to gals but also to guys.. 😉 they are human too, na? hehehe..
Hey, I’m proud to know such a guy like you and it’s a good thing dat u r sharing such stuff’s, mate… keep up the good work… 😉
thanks nim for the support!!!cheers!!
thanks mate…
machi, frankly speaking, u got real balls man..!! wat i meant to say was, i ‘ve seen a bunch of guys making hell of a fun wen it comes to gals topics..sincerely, im nt exceptional..but so far i’ve neva come across any blogs or discussions related to this topic.. diz is a real eye-opener..merely “a pinch of a salt jar” would hv thought to share this info or to welcome discussion and public’s perception..im proud to say i found sum1 out of “a pinch of a salt jar”…personally, i would say da whole universe will agree, or shall i say should agree with this..thanks for sharing it man..u really did ur studies, didnt u..gud job machi..great job..!! god bless u..!!!
****(referring to the date of the last comment) im commenting on this afta 2 yrs…hahaha..ok its not funny..but its refreshing isnt it?? ****
haha thanks machi, late a coming also latest a coming…
Good one brother…